Man Crush Monday | Brad & Maggie Humberstone

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Tell us the story of how you met...

After moving to Rochester, I wanted a way to casually meet new people and explore my new town.  Being your typical millennial with a "What's the worst that could happen?" kind of attitude, I joined Tinder.  If all else failed, at least I would get a nice meal every now and then, right?

And then Brad happened.  The one who changed it all.  

We agreed to meet on a dark and and cold Tuesday night in October, at a tiny bar called Half Pint.  We sat on bar stools for hours, talking and laughing like we had been friends for years.  From the moment I met Brad, he made me feel like the most special person in the room.  Our first date was so easy and comfortable, I was hooked. 

Two and a half years later, Brad would take me back to Half Pint on a summer evening and ask me to marry him. 

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What was the first date like?

Our first official date was an afternoon of hiking through Letchworth State Park.  Everything about that day was perfect.  After our hike, we stopped for cider doughnuts and apple cider.  We took the long way home on back country roads and grabbed dinner at one of his favorite spots.  I went home thinking about what life could be like with this amazing man by my side.  

What makes him crush worthy?

Brad is such a special human.  Not only is he an amazing husband, he's an incredible friend, brother and son (and doggie-daddy).  His warmth, unconditional love, relentless positive-attitude and sense of humor make being his wife an absolute privilege.  Brad is the best man I've ever met and I consider myself a pretty lucky lady to have him as my daily crush.  

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What are you looking forward to most in your future together?

I am excited for the whole journey.  To watch Brad evolve and change and grow.  I can't wait to start a family and watch Brad transition into the role of being a new Dad.  I can't wait to see our how love evolves and changes and grows.  Brad has never loved me like I'm ordinary and it's made my life better in so many ways.  

Tell us about your wedding day

In October 2017, Brad and I married in front of our family and friends at the Woodcliff Hotel.  We were blessed with seriously the most beautiful sunset during our ceremony.  The clouds literally opened and a beam of light lit us up as we said our "I do's".  You can't make that stuff up!  

The whole day had "us" written all over it.  It was super romantic and full of love.  

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Anything else you'd like to share??

I was twenty minutes late to our first date.  He will never let me forget this and even managed working my tardiness into his proposal when he said, "although you were late to our first date, Maggie, you were right on time."

Ladies, find someone who sees the best in you and hold on to them forever.  

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Man Crush Monday | Jared & Tabatha Vander Weel

Tabatha's everyday #ManCrush is her husband, Jared Vanderweel.

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Tell us the story of how you met...

We met in May of 2013 through Jared's sister Brigitte. I had just moved to Rochester from Chattanooga, TN, started working with her and we became instant friends. She invited me to her house for a cookout which Jared was also invited to. We both liked each other but wouldn't admit it for months until he asked to take me out for my birthday to Tapas 177.

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What makes him crush worthy?

His confidence when he walks into a room, his heart of gold, and his trusting eyes. 

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What's your favorite story about the two of you?

Getting caught in a storm in the Caribbean Sea. We were on our honeymoon island hopping on a personal catamaran for a week (a wedding present from my in-laws.) Jared was the captain and I was the skipper. Just the two of us on this boat without a care in the world, and we see the storm up ahead. But like most tropical storms, you are in it for a few minutes and just a few miles ahead it is nothing but sunshine. The rain was coming down but we still had our reggae music playing and drinks in hand laughing because nothing could bring us down. It was a perfect imperfect day.

When did you know you wanted to spend the rest of your life with this man?

The first Christmas we had together. Jared went out of his way to make everyone happy including me. I realized then that he was the most selfless person I had ever met.

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What are you looking forward to most in your future together?

Retiring in St. Thomas US Virgin Islands

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Tell us about the proposal...

December 8th, 2015 we were at Disney World in front of Cinderella's Castle watching the frozen show with my sister, brother-in-law and niece. Jared was standing behind me and when the show ended - I turned around and he was gone. I looked back to my sister and said "I don't know where Jared went," she looked past me and said "he is right behind you." When I turned around he was in a Prince Charming costume, he got down on one knee and asked me to be his wife. I of course said yes!

Tell us about your wedding day!

April 5th, 2017 we got married at the Sand Dollar Estate in St. Thomas USVI. I couldn't picture a more perfect day than what we had. Surrounded by friends and family we said "I DO" on the deck of the Little Sand Dollar overlooking the bluest water you have ever seen without a cloud in the sky.

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Anything else you'd like to share?

I am the blessed one that gets to call him "mine". 

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Real Women of Rochester | Natasha Scrivens

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Natasha Scrivens  | Age: 36  |  Profession: Pharmacist

Q: Tell us about your journey through womanhood

When most teenage girls where worried about if the cute boy would be in their English class or what clothes to wear and how to do their makeup for school, I was faced with an entirely different problem in my early teens.  I remember laying in the back seat of the mini-van while my mom sped down the road to get me to the ER.  The doctor had called her moments earlier, my blood sugar was so high it was unreadable on their machines.  She was told I had to be admitted to the hospital ASAP. As I laid in the back of the car crying, it took too much energy to keep my eyes open - all I wanted to do was sleep.  What did this mean?  What was happening to me?  Was I going to die?  All questions that went through my head. I knew I was sick, I knew I didn't feel well.  While my friends where chasing boys that summer, I was in a hospital room learning how to test my blood sugar, draw up insulin and give myself shots to stay alive.  In many ways being diagnosed as a type 1 diabetic has molded me into the woman I am now.

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I come from a family of immigrants.  I grew up listening to languages that most people do not recognize.  I have two grandmothers (and grandfathers ) who immigrated here as young adults.  Although both came from different countries, both left everything they knew for a better life.  Both women were/are strong willed and determine.  l carry on their determination.  I would not let diabetes hold me back in what I wanted to accomplish.  I've heard so many times I could not succeed in the path I was walking.  I would not listen.  Like my grandparents I knew anything was possible with a little hard work.

Q: What would you say to another woman who may be going through something you've been through?

Hang on, things will get better.

Q: What surprised you most about your photography experience?

I was surprised by how comfortable Natalie made me feel.  I am one that likes to be covered up, so the thought of being in my bra and underwear and having my pictures taken was horrifying. Natalie's personality put me right to rest.  We ended up laughing through the shoot.  

Q: How do you feel when you look at your favorite photo of yourself from your shoot?

I feel beautiful, strong, and sexy.  I also feel like passing them out to to all my classmates in middle school and high school that used to make fun of me.  

Q: What would you share with a woman who doesn't think she is beautiful enough to be photographed?

You are beautiful!  Everyone is different, our differences make us beautiful. 

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Q: What are your thoughts on beauty?

Beauty can come in many forms.  You don't have to be blonde, blue eyes, and 90 lbs to be beautiful.  Beauty comes from the inside and how you hold yourself.  You can be beautiful in jeans and a sweatshirt or a gorgeous wedding gown.  

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Q: What are your hopes for the next generation of women? What advice would you give to them?

My hopes for the next generation of women is to hold high-power positions. Yes there are a lot of women already in high-power positions, but if you look at the top companies in the US they are mostly run by men.  There is no reason why a women shouldn't be running these companies.  My advice would be pull your shoulders back, chin up and get what you deserve.  You know you are capable of it, attack it! You deserve it.

Q: What would you say to your sixteen year old self?

It's okay to fail, and you are beautiful.  You will find someone one day, that loves you and puts up with all your short comings.  And listen to your parents, hard work when you are young will pay off when you are older.

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Q: What empowering message would you like to share with young women today?

Nothing is easy.  If being successful was easy we would all do it.  Hard work and determination is the only way you will succeed.  Find something you love, make goals and work towards them.  You may fail, it may take you longer to reach them, but the feeling you get when you meet your goals is the most fantastic feeling in the world.

Q: When do you feel / have you felt most beautiful?

On my wedding day.  Or on date nights when I see my husband smile as he introduces me to his friends or co-workers.  

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Q: What do you love about being a woman?

The opportunity it has given me.  I can be the powerful woman at work that has the answers to your questions. I can be the competitive women that makes bets with you and does everything I can do to win.  And I can be the woman that walks into the room who turns heads. Strong, fierce and beautiful.  :)  

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Lenhert-Maxwell Wedding

It's always an honor and a pleasure to photograph my wedding couples - it's what I do. I've structured my entire life around it, and devoted the last ten years of my life to doing so. But to photograph the wedding of someone who is near and dear to you? Someone who actually shoots other people's weddings with you day in and day out? Honor doesn't really cover it. Witnessing Anna Lenhert and Braden Maxwell marry each other was one of the highlights of my professional career. Being able to provide Anna (literally the most self-less person I have EVER met) with the care, support, love and photographs that she bestows upon others every other Saturday of her life was absolutely thrilling. And if you've ever met Anna, you might think "wow, no one could possibly be as nice as Anna" -- and you would be correct. Unless of course, you've met Braden.  These two are truly a match made in heaven, they bring countless smiles to the faces of those around them, and we here at NSP could not be happier to see what life has in store for these two! And also of course to play with their gorgeous images :D XOXO Love you two!!! <3

Arazoza / Fishman Wedding Slideshow

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Sometimes a wedding is so magical and electric that words really can't describe it. From start to finish, Bethany & Lenny's wedding at Oak Hill Country Club was simply indescribable. Almost 300 family and beloved friends travelled from all over the US and the world to attend the union of these two families, cultures and religions. Their wedding party was comprised only of siblings / sibling-in-laws, and their parents were present and proud every step of the way. These two love each other fiercely, and their celebration was infused with as much exuberance and adventure as they exhibit in their daily lives. These two families could not be more loving, supportive, joyful, and frankly hysterically funny, it was an honor and a pleasure to spend the day with them :) 

Shout outs to their incredible vendor team: Britney LaVoie at Black Label Events, Jessica Tran at Oak Hill, Lindsay & Kristin from Rock Paper Scissors, Kittelberger's Floral, friend Renee Paulson for ceremony flowers, and Brad from Jaqueline Daley Videography. 

Severino-Brown Same Day Slidehsow

Andrea & Chris truly had the fairytale wedding day they have been hoping and dreaming of. Chalet of Canandaigua and Country Club of Canandaigua provided the most picturesque settings you could ever dream of on a perfect summers day. These two truly are best friends, and could not be happier to be starting their lives together as Mr. & Mrs. Brown :) Please enjoy this slideshow that we produced and displayed at their reception!

Nelson-Brown Wedding - Same Day Slideshow

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Sasha & Antoine are two of the most generous, lovely, kind-hearted and compassionate people I've ever met. The two are both in the medical field - always helping others. It was no surprise that their family and friend's rose to the occasion to help, love and celebrate these two all day! 40 of Sasha's family members came from as far as Ghana and Barbados - Antoine had family in from Texas and all over the country. The Strathallan Hotel in Rochester NY was the gathering spot for the entire world to honor this relationship -- oh -- and to have a raging party to boot ;) Enjoy this slideshow that we made and displayed at their reception :)

Cala-Guadagnino Same Day Slideshow #twopeasinaguad

If a movie were two be made about high school romance (ok, another movie!), it should star these two. Not only did these two become best friends and eventually start dating in high school [read our #mancrushmonday story about Nick for THAT story!], but their roots go back even further than that! Their dads were best friends at the same high school (Bishop Kearney) - and there are several other crazy connections I won't even begin to describe (dad's welcome toast did it best!). The love and consideration they exhibit for each other is truly remarkable - and it was evident in every moment of their wedding. Enjoy the same day slideshow below that we made and displayed at their wedding reception at Casa Larga

Jaron Wilson | Man Crush Monday

Carly & Jaron Wilson's love story as written by Carly Wilson herself...

"Stubborn, free-spirited New York woman meets selfless and patient Indiana man. I first fell in love with Jaron through music. I always accredit music when asked what brought us together. It was the first thing that bound us; the instrument that emboldened us and freed us of the everyday monotony. It is something we share exclusively. Jaron is my calming force; he is a soft voice when mine is too loud. He is the kindest man I know, continually showering me with words of encouragement. He is my greatest advocate. He is intelligent, always surprising me with his exceptional mind. I love him for his humility, his sense of humor, his open-mindedness, his loyalty to those he loves, his drive to push himself in all things, and his uncanny knack for making me the happiest, most fulfilled woman on the planet. I married him because he is exactly the person I want to be around every day of my life. He shows me a gentle and understanding love that I did not know existed." And if you haven't melted into a puddle yet.... "In the future I see us somewhere out west, with a lake, a grand backyard, and many little ones occupying that space. The greatest thing I could have done with my life is share it with this man, and the only thing that could top marrying him would be building a family together. I see us maintaining our individual pursuits while also growing from shared experiences. I have learned that everything seems a little brighter, a little better, with the support of someone you love. Jaron makes all things possible in love and in life."